How do you know someone is not interested after you have a first date? Me and my friends have discussed this a time or two, and our answer is pretty simply. Just telling the person would be to much like right, so we usually just skip this step all together. We feel that if you call us or we call you two maybe three times, and get no answer or a return phone call, then you have your answer....NOT INTERESTED! At this point don't continue to call or text, or use the unknown caller trick, because it turns into stalkerish behavior, which is never a good look. If you continue to call, because some do, please do not leave a message telling us what your doing, about to do, or how you feel, because it doesn't really matter, and believe it or not your voice message is usually put on speaker phone for everyone present to laugh at and talk about. Now i'm not saying this works for everyone or that it's the right thing to do, but based on our experiences when you actually tell someone face to face or via telephone, they try and convince you why you shouldn't feel that way, and we ain't really feeling all the extra that comes with that. So if this sounds like you, please stop, and if you were thinking of doing this, please don't.....just take it for what it is...Not Interested!
Sunday, July 12, 2009
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